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Hey michelle., where have you been?

I know it’s been a few weeks since I last posted but January is always a rough month for me. However, I was asked to write the wellness blog for my Center this month at work. I decided I’d share it here too, enjoy:

Every year as January rolls into February, the temperatures stay cold, the days stay short, and I begin to loose motivation. Things I typically enjoy, like working out and having dinner with friends, become a chore. All I want to do is get home from work, put on sweatpants, and watch television or snooze. I don’t want to put on layers of clothes just to take the trash out or walk down to the mailbox. I’d rather just stay indoors where it’s warm. This hibernation typically leads me into the winter blues. It’s normal for many people, especially those living in colder climates, but it doesn’t have to happen!

Recently, I learned about the idea of hygge, which is a Danish concept related to surviving the long, cold, dark days of winter. Hygge (pronounced hue-guh not hoo-gah) is a state of mind. In English it is described as coziness, charm, happiness, contentedness, security, familiarity, comfort, and kinship. Practicing hygge means participating in simple rituals or activities, such as making hot tea or lighting a candle, with happiness and a positive spirit. This same attitude is then brought to the spirit of going outdoors into the cold. Alfred Wainwright (1907–1991), famous for his hiking guides, wrote, “There’s no such thing as bad weather, only unsuitable clothing.”

I believe that if Danish people can battle their winter blues with hygge and suitable clothing, then so can I. It just takes 5 minutes of energy to get off the couch, put on winter clothing, and go enjoy the beautiful outdoors. After all, sitting on the couch feeling miserable will not beat the winter blues.

Fortunately, I live in Atlanta with its relatively mild and short winters, but they can still suck a lot of the joy from the first few months of the year. So, this year before spring hits, I’ve decided to put on a warm coat, go outside, and live life a bit fuller. Just this week, I took a chilly walk and was thrilled to see few flowers making their first appearance of the year.

Another way I’ve tried to practice hygge is to eat outdoors during my lunch break. Going outside when I don’t have to might sound silly, but I spend 8 hours a day in an office with no windows. When I get to work, the sun has barely risen, and by the time I leave, it is setting and my vitamin D exposure is almost nonexistent. That 30 minutes of being outdoors, no matter the temperature or weather, has become invaluable to me. If it’s raining, I sit under a covering; if it’s absolutely freezing, I take refuge in my car; but mostly I just soak in being outdoors and remember that this season is temporary. Honestly, it is my favorite part of the day no matter the temperature or weather.

Additional ways I beat the winter blues are to give myself time to be in my home crafting or reading a book — hygge. Making the decision to leave home or be active indoors might feel monumental sometimes, but at the end of the season when spring is blooming, I will remember that I’m in a much healthier mindset than if I had just slept though winter.

If you’d like some more information, try the book The Little Book of Hygge by Meik Wiking. Disclamer: I have not read this book but the reviews look promising. Let me know what you think!

Have a great February! Fortunately, the groundhog did not see his shadow so we are in for an early spring this year. Woohoo 🙂

Perhaps you hate posts without pictures? Perhaps you hate the winter? You do you, boo.

Best,

michelle.

December Book(s) of the Month

This December I was able to read two books. One of which, I read each and every year, Holidays on Ice by David Sedaris. It is a collection of six short stories, each one absolutely hilarious. The first story is about his time as an elf in Santa Land in the New York City Macy’s on Harold Square. I have read this book on Christmas every year for the past four years and still laugh each and every time. Recently, I also found out that the Santa Land story was featured on an episode of NPR’s This American Life podcast. The story is only slightly different but equally as hilarious. The book is a short only, 134 pages. It usually only takes me three sittings to get through the entire book. I highly recommend it if you want to get into the Christmas spirit and laugh your tail off. The back of the book says:

David Sedaris’s beloved holiday collection is new again with six more pieces, including a never before published story. Along with such favorites as the diaries of a Macy’s elf and the annals of two very competitive families, are Sedaris’s tales of tardy trick-or-treaters (“Us and Them”); the difficulties of explaining the Easter Bunny to the French (“Jesus Shaves”); what to do when you’ve been locked out in a snowstorm (“Let It Snow”); the puzzling Christmas traditions of other nations (“Six to Eight Black Men”); what Halloween at the medical examiner’s looks like (“The Monster Mash”); and a barnyard secret Santa scheme gone awry (“Cow and Turkey”).

No matter what your favorite holiday, you won’t want to miss celebrating it with the author who has been called “one of the funniest writers alive” (Economist).

The other book I read in December was the sequel to Crazy Rich Asians, China Rich Girlfriend by Kevin Kwan. I said in a previous post that I wasn’t in a hurry to read the second book but I got it as a birthday present and decided December was the perfect time to crack it open. Overall, I thought the book was incredibly entertaining. I liked this book so much that I actually dropped it in the bathtub while it was full of water. It follows many more story lines than the first novel so even if one character’s story isn’t of interest to you, then next chapter brings you back to a character you may be more invested in. The book is 479 pages and broken up into three sections. The first section look me the longest to get through because it took a while for the really meaty parts of the novel to get going but once I got to the second section I was fully invested and completely engrossed in the stories. When I finished the book I looked at Jay and said, well now I want to read the third one. The author does a great job setting the audience up for the last book in the trilogy. It is definitely on my reading list for 2019.

The back of the book synopsis says:

It’s the eve of Rachel Chu’s wedding, and she should be over the moon. She has a flawless Asscher-cut diamond, a wedding dress she loves, and a fiancé willing to thwart his meddling relatives and give up one of the biggest fortunes in Asia in order to marry her. Still, Rachel mourns the fact that her birthfather, a man she never knew, won’t be there to walk her down the aisle.  

Then a chance accident reveals his identity. Suddenly, Rachel is drawn into a dizzying world of Shanghai splendor, a world where people attend church in a penthouse, where exotic cars race down the boulevard, and where people aren’t just crazy rich … they’re China rich.

Happy 2019 everyone, I hope you’re settling into winter and enjoying the chilly weather. Perhaps you hate reading? Perhaps you hate the winter? You do you, boo.

Best,

michelle.

Happy New Year, North Carolina!

This year for New Year’s weekend, Jay and I travelled to Sugar Mountain, North Carolina for a weekend of skiing with friends. In total, we had a group of about 9 people stay in the Air B&B all weekend. We late Friday night and headed almost straight to bed which was good because Saturday was a rough day for us.

We started out trying to get breakfast fixed & eaten, everyone’s snow gear and stuff packed up, and rush out the door. Unfortunately, that’s where the “fun” started. I started to back out of the very steep gravel driveway and slid off landing my vehicle between a tree and the driveway, stuck. I was a little shaken and frustrated but not scared. The car didn’t flip thanks to the rocks and trees, thank goodness, but we had to call a tow truck and wait for him to arrive. Norman, the tow man, was very nice and said that the address has had multiple cases of this same thing happen, which made me feel better. I’m not the only one to slide off of the driveway apparently. Eventually, after a tow, we were finally able to head to the ski shop and rent our gear.

The shop was crowded but we left with our gear in hand ready to get on the mountain. Unfortunately, our excitement had to wait. We drove up the mountain, sitting in traffic, to full parking lots and people everywhere. It took another hour to get parked, bused up the mountain, make our way through the crowds, and get a lift ticket. At this point I was done. I was hungry, tired, and emotionally over all of the crowds. Skiing was the last thing I wanted to do but after a sandwich and a shove into ski class, I started to calm down.

I haven’t skied in 20 years. I used to ski growing up in Colorado but the past few times I’ve gone to a resort, I’ve opted to snowboard. In all reality though, I’m a horrible snowboarder. I fall a lot and it’s exhausting to get back up, so this time I returned to skiing. In my opinion, it’s a lot easier to be a beginner skier then snowboarder. After the lesson, I felt relatively confident and I started making the green runs. I fell a few times but got back up and had a great time. After skiing Jay went into the lodge for a moment to get our stuff out of his locker, however when he returned someone had taken his skis by mistake. We looked high and low for them but they were nowhere to be found… the great luck continued. Eventually, the rental place called and said that some lady had taken his by accident and returned them, thankfully. After the rental fiasco, Jay and I headed back to make dinner for the group. When we got to the Air B&B there was water leaking (or pouring) out of the refrigerator. The ice inside had melted after our group’s groceries had been stored and now the water was pouring out (yay, more joy to that day). That night (after a mop) we watched television, hot tubbed, and licked our wounds. The day was stressful but I was so glad it was over.

Sunday was similar to Saturday, but without the tow truck, stolen skis, and leaking fridge. We left to ski and made runs all day. We went from about 1pm to 8pm with a break while the ski resort ran the machines over the snow to smooth it out. I loved skiing, hopefully in the future I can invest more time and money into the sport. I’d love to make it a real hobby that I feel confident in.

Monday was New Year’s Eve. The group went to the local BBQ place, The Pedalin’ Pig. Every time we drove past the restaurant, the parking lot was packed so we assumed it must be good. We were right, it was delicious! After lunch we visited a local winery and tried out some local tastes. Overall, not the best wine I’ve ever had but it was nice to sit with friends and talk about our resolutions and goals for 2019. Once we got back from the winery, we began setting up for our NYE party, Air B&B style. I had bought party décor from Target & Party City before we left Atlanta. The theme was black and gold. We set up a photo wall, played games, did 2018 trivia, wrote ourselves notes to open in a year, made pizzas, and watched Black Mirror Balderdash on Netflix. When the clock hit midnight we blew our noisemakers, popped balloons, and toasted with champagne.

Tuesday was New Year’s Day. We packed up, said good bye, and headed home to reset for the work day ahead. I’m so glad I was able to make the trip happen, even with all of the drama on Saturday. Things don’t always go smoothly but the trick is flexibility and resiliency. Happy 2019 everyone!

Perhaps you hate skiing? Perhaps you hate parties? You do you, boo.

Best,

michelle.  

Merry Christmas, Missouri

Friday, after another grueling week of working two jobs, Jay and I prepared to head to Kansas City for the holidays. My parents recently moved to Kansas City, MO from Dallas, TX. Neither, Jay or I had ever been to KC so we were excited to check off another place on our travel list. Unfortunately, the trip started rough with a delay that had us departing Atlanta after midnight. However, it was a quick flight and we didn’t have any additional issues. Saturday was a busy day of last minute Christmas shopping, eating, baking and seeing Mary Poppins Returns. The movie was so cute. I’d say 4/5 stars because… it’s not the original and only Julie Andrews can get 5/5 stars, sorry Emily Blunt.

Sunday was a bit quieter day. We went to church, napped, and watched football all day. After a Cowboys victory, we decided to head to the Country Club/Village area of Kansas City. We ate Chuy’s for dinner (we Texans love our Tex-Mex, even in KC) and drove around the area looking at Christmas lights. In case you were curious, this area of KC is full of box stores and brands you’d see in almost any big city: Tiffany & Co., Madewell, Vera Bradley, Old Navy, Apple, etc. After dinner and the drive, we headed home and watched Christmas movies until we fell asleep.

Monday, Christmas Eve, was probably my favorite day of the trip. We started off at Union Station looking at the model train exhibits which were unbelievable, truly. I was super impressed. We then walked in and out of stores looking at all the goodies and trinkets for sale. Afterward, we took the above ground walking tunnel link to the Crown Center where Jay and I went ICE-SKATING! It was SO FUN. I absolutely loved it. I didn’t fall or bump into anyone which made me feel relatively confident. We skated for almost an hour and then headed home to change for dinner and Christmas Eve services at church.

Pro Tip: not many restaurants are open late on Christmas Eve. Do your research ahead of time to find out what is open for the time you’d like to eat. We ended up at Olive Garden before they closed at 8. A few years ago my family did not do this research and we ended up eating fried chicken at the only place open within 5 miles of our church (in Dallas-Fort Worth).

Wardrobe: My Christmas dress is from Ivy City Co. I was obsessed with it from the minute I saw it advertised. It’s on the expensive side but it is worth every penny. It is quality fabric sold by small business owners who practice responsible buying. They also have mini versions of a lot of their clothes so you can match your kids (if you have them)!

After church we climbed into our Christmas pajamas and watched Christmas movies (and Monday Night Football) until we heard Santa outside and headed to bed. 😉

Tuesday, Christmas Day, was a busy one. My sister’s flight arrived into KC from Houston around 10:30am but her bag did not. We watched A Christmas Story a few times on TNT while we waited, then switched over to the Disney Christmas Parade. You know you’re starting to get older when you have no idea who any of the artists performing on the stages are.

After breakfast casserole and my mom’s traditional Christmas day smoothie, Orange Julius, we passed out presents and began opening. Between the five of us, we got enough stuff to fill almost every inch of the living room floor. We are so blessed each and every year to be spoiled so much.

After presents was supper preparation as my dad headed back to the airport to retrieve my sister’s bag. He arrived back about 3pm and it was time to eat. Dinner was a bit hilarious. For the past few years, my family has been having steak on Christmas day, this year my parents thought they would preorder prime ribs from Longhorn steakhouse and then just warm them up in the oven for dinner. Well… they tasted great but the meat was way past tender and juicy. Don’t get me wrong, the food was fantastic and we were blessed to have such a wonderful meal but overcooked meat was definitely not anticipated for Jay’s first Christmas with my family. He also got to experience my favorite dessert, Big Cherry Salad. His response was, “that was cool.” Obviously, not a fan. Looking back, I’m he was dreaming about his family’s Christmas meals instead of ones that involve, cherries and Jell-O. Sorry, babe.

After dinner it was time to pack and head to the airport. (Tally, my dad’s third airport run on Christmas day). Thankfully, our flight, connection in Chicago, and trip back to Atlanta all went without any problems. Overall, I had the best time in KC. Truth be told, I did not give the city much credit but the place has plenty to do and see around the holidays. Thank you to my parents for hosting us and being so generous with your time, money, and love. You made Jay and I feel very comfortable and warm in a place we’d never been before. Merry Christmas to all and to all a Good Night!

Perhaps you hate the holidays? Perhaps you hate steaks? You do you, boo.

Best,

michelle.

Looking Ahead.

This week, I hit a breaking point. I’m tired. I’m emotionally tired of constantly feeling moody and cranky; I’m physically tired of not getting enough sleep; and I’m mentally tired of the hustle. It doesn’t help that I still hold my part time job at Dick’s, which means that two to three nights a week I work 7:30am-11pm. Hitting this breaking point really started me thinking about what I want next year to look like. This year I got my masters, got a job in my degree field that pays me enough, and found a wonderful man. What’s next? How can I start to battle this painful tiredness and look forward to 2019?

  1. Learn to say no. I don’t have all the answers but I have learned that everyone has a limited amount of capacity and no one can do it all. If I’m going to pull myself out of my perpetual tiredness state I’m going to have to make changes and learn to say no. My first recent no was to Christmas cards. I had the whole idea planned out, use our engagement pictures to print cute Shutterfly cards and send them out. Sounded easy enough but then it became an activity that I had to terminate. I did not have time to text people, ask for their mailing addresses, wait for a response, fill out the envelope, buy stamps, and get them to a mailbox. Nope. I realized my capacity to put out Christmas cards was non-existent. I realize this Christmas card example may seem silly but it is just one small thing that I struggled to say no to. Now, as 2019 approaches, it’s time to start making bigger choices and learning to say no to things that will not help me to reach my goals.
  • Make SMART Goals. I heard a podcast recently about setting intentional goals. In public health we call them SMART goals. Specific. Measurable. Attainable. Relevant. Timely. In other words, don’t just say “In 2019, I want to lose weight.” This goal is not SMART, instead say “I want to go to the gym three times a week to lose 5% body fat by June 1, 2019”. Giving yourself SMART goals helps to keep you accountable because these goals live in the realm of possibility. Personally, I don’t know what I want my SMART goals of 2019 to be yet, but I do know what lifestyle boundaries I want to use to achieve them.
  • Set boundaries. Now, I understand that everyone has the luxury of being able to have a consistent work schedule that pays enough. I 100% get that. I’ve been there. I have cried because I wasn’t sure how I was going to pay rent or fill my car with gas. I’ve been that person for majority of my adult life so far. But now, I’m tired and I realize that I’m fortunate for the ability to start making choices and setting boundaries. Also, I realize that some of you reading this may not have this problem at all. You are perfectly happy saying no to things and living in the moment, I wish I were one of you but I am not. I am a Type-A overachiever who has yet to learn how to say no or set boundaries. If you’re like me, guess what? There are solutions.
  • Start new rhythms. Along with working hour boundaries, I want to start adding other healthy rhythms into my life such as eating cleaner and putting more physical exercise in my routine. This may sound very cliché but my body changed a lot in graduate school. I gained weight, unhealthy cholesterol levels, and horrific skin allergies. As a public health professional I am not practicing what I preach. I used to get mad at myself for not being able to do it all and be perfect at everything, but I now know that does not improve any behaviors. I’ve learned that I have to give something up to let something new in. For example, I have to give up some shifts at Dick’s if I want to have an hour each day to take a dance class or go to the gym. I also have to give up buying large amounts of things so I can by fewer products of quality.

Figuring out your rhythms, boundaries and goals are important steps for initiating change. I too am still figuring this out but, for now, I know what direction I’m headed in. Hopefully these quick and dirty ideas will help you to start brain storming along with me. Let’s make 2019 a healthier, more adventurous and more giving year than 2018 was. To give this post some visuals, I’ve included some random pics from December.  

Perhaps you hate change? Perhaps you hate new goals? You do you, boo.

Best,

michelle.

November Book of The Month

I got the BEST gift for my birthday. I was told it would be “perfect” before I opened it. Mindy, you were right, I am pleased to tell you – it was indeed perfect! First of all, books and mugs are the perfect gifts for me. On top of that, I love Lin Manuel-Miranda.

The book I received and read this month was Gmorning, Gnight! Little Pep Talks For You & Me by Lin Manuel-Miranda. It only took me about two sittings, but I loved it! Each page is a tweet with a good morning message and a tweet with a good night message. There were 400 tweets over 200 days, so the read goes very quick. Additionally, there are beautiful illustrations, by Jonny Sun, on each page portraying the tweets’ message. 

My favorite day of tweets was:

You’re indescribable. We writers spend out lives trying to do you justice. And you’re always more than we can capture. Good morning.

You’re indescribable. We writers spend our lives trying to conjure you from every angle. We get close enough to keep trying. Good night. 

Here is the description from the back of the book: 

NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • An uplifting holiday gift from the creator and star of Hamilton, with beautiful illustrations by Jonny Sun, comes a book of affirmations to inspire readers at the beginning and end of each day.

“When the world is bringing you down, Gmorning, Gnight! will remind you that you are awesome.”—Booklist

Before he inspired the world with Hamilton and was catapulted to international fame, Lin-Manuel Miranda was inspiring his Twitter followers with words of encouragement at the beginning and end of each day. He wrote these original sayings, aphorisms, and poetry for himself as much as for others. But as Miranda’s audience grew, these messages took on a life on their own. Now Miranda has gathered the best of his daily greetings into a beautiful collection illustrated by acclaimed artist (and fellow Twitter favorite) Jonny Sun. Full of comfort and motivation, Gmorning, Gnight! is a touchstone for anyone who needs a quick lift.

I’m so excited to share my December BOTM with all of you next month! Hopefully, there may even be two! 🙂

Perhaps you hate books? Perhaps you hate fun? You do you, boo.

Best, 

michelle. 

Virtuous Virginia (Happy Thanksgiving)

Last week, Jay and I travelled to Charlottesville, Virginia to celebrate Thanksgiving. The holiday started on Monday night with a Friendsgiving in Atlanta! We didn’t take many photos but it was so much fun. I am so thankful for all of my friends who support and love me everyday! Willow Dog had to make it into this blog at some point, she’s the best loaf 🙂

The traveling day started when I got off of work at 1pm the day before Thanksgiving. In typical Michelle style, I procrastinated and waited till the last moment to pack for the trip by starting to decorate for Christmas and watching one of my Thanksgiving tradition movies: Saints and Strangers. More than likely, you have not heard of this film. It was originally a mini-series on National Geographic Channel about 4 years ago. It is a historical fiction telling about the first years in the lives of the Pilgrims and the Native American people whose lives were affected by their migration. It is soooo interesting. I like that they give a voice to both parties, the Native peoples and the pilgrims, it’s not one-sided. Anyway, I rented it on Amazon and enjoyed it instead of packing…oops. 

After I watched the series it was time to throw things into a bag and head to the airport. I thought it was going to be super busy and crazy. I asked Jay to remind me to be patient. Fortunately, there was no need, we had a TON of extra time. Once sitting at the gate, I had to watch my other Thanksgiving tradition movie, A Charlie Brown Thanksgiving. 

Once we’d boarded the plane it was time to nap 🙂 We arrived in Charlottesville late and drove to Jay’s aunt’s home and crashed after a bit of visiting. The Thanksgiving crew was me, Jay, Jay’s aunt, mom, dad, sister, and two cousins. The house was full of people and fun all weekend.

Thanksgiving Day started promptly at 9am when the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade started. I couldn’t miss my favorite host from The Ladygang, Keltie Knight, hosting the parade on CBS. I watched the entire parade and dog show before it was time to get off the couch and get dressed for supper. The meal consisted of all the classics: turkey, green bean casserole, sweet potatoes, stuffing, and more. It was delicious! Here is a picture of our smaller table since the larger table had been filled to capacity and we didn’t fit. 

After supper it was time for FOOTBALL! The Cowboys pulled off a win against the Redskins (insert fireworks here! 😉 ). Then we all played Scrabble and Clue into the wee hours of the morning. It was the perfect day. I wish I would have been allowed into the kitchen to help but they kept shoo-ing me away, so I helped through words of thanks and encouragement. 

Friday morning was a late start but finally we agreed to go visit The Monticello. Thomas Jefferson build The Monticello to be his home and estate in the 1700s. First, we hiked from the parking lot up The Trail to the visitors’ center. It was a wonderful hike, but it was cold. cold. cold. Once we got to the top, we realized that our large party was not all going to be able to tour the home that day, so we split up after a final hike up the hill. (yes, it’s up high!)

Pro tip: buy your tickets early if you plan on visiting during the holidays.

We saw his grave, the grounds, the existing buildings, and took pictures outside the house. I can be honest and say I don’t know how I felt about it. Thomas Jefferson was an amazing man who did fantastic things, but I felt conflicted. Perhaps I’ve listened to Hamilton one too many times or shed a few too many tears over the stories of the slaves he owned. However, I have the utmost respect for him as a person and I am thankful for all he did for our country. His library is one of the best in the world and I can relate to his scientific mind. Overall, I am very glad I got to experience all that was The Monticello. I encourage anyone visiting the area to go and at least experience it. Make up your own mind and have your own experience. Just make sure you’re ready to hike! (If you want the most thorough experience.)

Wardrobe: Maddie Buffalo Plaid Dress by Roolee. This dress is fully lined and very conservative. It was perfect to wear with leggings and my wool coat for warmth! 

After turning into frozen popsicles, Jay and I took a date night at Three Notch’d Brewery. It was sooooo good: the beer, the food, the atmosphere! All 5 stars! 

Saturday was football day. We watched college football ALL. DAY. I have never watched so much football in my life, but I was nice to just chill with family eating tailgating food and left overs. SMU lost…boo. But I got to watch LSU and Texas A&M go into 7 OTs, crazy!!

On Sunday we went to Starbucks, got my Been There Series mug, ate breakfast and walked the UVA campus. The university was built by Jefferson and it still holds a lot of his influences. It was very cool to visit since my Alma Mater, Southern Methodist University, was based off the same style of architecture. I’ll let you decide if you see the resemblance…

UVA Versus SMU:

After walking, watching Jack Ryan movies, and seeing Atlanta United win (!!!) Jay and I boarded the flight home. Overall, it was a fantastic first visit to Virginia. I cannot wait to go back! Happy Thanksgiving! I am so thankful for each and every one of you reading this, thanks for your support. All of my love. 

Perhaps you hate Thanksgiving? Perhaps you hate dog shows? You do you, boo. 

Best,

michelle.

October – Book of The Month

Obviously I am aware that it is basically December but… I finally got a chance to finish my October Book of The Month!

I read the novel Big Little Lies by Liane Moriarty. I first got this book as a birthday present for my best friend. I typically do not gift books that I have not read myself so… I put this one on the top of my list. I had watched the mini series on HBO last year so I was a little nervous that I wouldn’t enjoy the book. Nicole Kidman, Reese Witherspoon, Shaliene Woodley, and Zoe Cravitz killed it and I didn’t want to be disappointed since I already knew the ending. 

I was so WRONG! I loved the book. It was just different enough to keep my focus from beginning to end. There were 486 pages and 86 chapters but they’re short and contain a lot of dialogue, so it goes fast. 

It is a mystery with a lot of twists and turns. To avoid giving anything away, I will just include the book synopsis: 

Sometimes it’s the little lies that turn out to be the most lethal…
A murder…a tragic accident…or just parents behaving badly? 
What’s indisputable is that someone is dead. But who did what?

Big Little Lies follows three women, each at a crossroads:

Madeline is a force to be reckoned with. She’s funny and biting, passionate, she remembers everything and forgives no one. Her ex-husband and his yogi new wife have moved into her beloved beachside community, and their daughter is in the same kindergarten class as Madeline’s youngest (how is this possible?). And to top it all off, Madeline’s teenage daughter seems to be choosing Madeline’s ex-husband over her. (How. Is. This. Possible?).

Celeste is the kind of beautiful woman who makes the world stop and stare. While she may seem a bit flustered at times, who wouldn’t be, with those rambunctious twin boys? Now that the boys are starting school, Celeste and her husband look set to become the king and queen of the school parent body. But royalty often comes at a price, and Celeste is grappling with how much more she is willing to pay.

New to town, single mom Jane is so young that another mother mistakes her for the nanny. Jane is sad beyond her years and harbors secret doubts about her son. But why? While Madeline and Celeste soon take Jane under their wing, none of them realizes how the arrival of Jane and her inscrutable little boy will affect them all.

Big Little Lies is a brilliant take on ex-husbands and second wives, mothers and daughters, schoolyard scandal, and the dangerous little lies we tell ourselves just to survive.

I encourage anyone who enjoys a good mystery novel to pick this one up. It’s a great read for all of your road trips, flights, and nights spent by the fire this holiday season! I personally will be picking up the other titles written by this author and putting them on my list 🙂

Perhaps you hate HBO? Perhaps you hate books? You do you, boo. 

Best, 

michelle. 

All Hallow’s Eve

Yes, I know, Halloween was over a week ago, but I have not had a chance to sit down and blog about it yet. The Sunday we arrived home from the wedding in Hilton Head my sister flew in to spend the holiday with us.

Monday evening started the Halloween fun at Six Flags Over Georgia. Freight Fest was in its final days and the temperature was beginning to get crisp, but we were ready to ride those roller coasters! My sister and I have always been huge fans of roller coasters. It’s one of the few things we have in common, so we pretty much hit up theme parks whenever we’re together. Joining us were Jay and my friend Elliyah. The four of us had the best time running from ride to ride… until we rode the swings. They went up high and fast. Once we were done, we were all frozen popsicles ready to go home and drink something warm.

Tuesday evening, my sister and I had planned to carve pumpkins, make tacos, and watch Halloween movies. (sounds easy, right?) Well…. pro-tip: there are no carving pumpkins in stores the day before Halloween. We called and drove to about 10 stores before we got hungry and finally settled for mini-pumpkins. The night turned out fun anyway. We ate, carved our baby pumpkins, and watched Hocus Pocus & The Peanuts-Gang Halloween Special.

HALLOWEEN DAY: Wednesday morning, I put candy outside of our door, so our neighbors could take some as they headed to work. That night, I put on my Ravenclaw robe & neck tie to wear to dinner with my sister. We ate Chinese food and had a heart-to-heart chat. It was really nice to catch up with her and hear about her life in Houston. After dinner we drove to the airport and I said goodbye. Halloween was over and only gobstoppers were left outside my door.

Until next year, HALLOWEEN 🙂

Since I’m so behind, October’s Book of the Month will be posted next week, sorry for the wait! Perhaps you hate Halloween? Perhaps you hate roller coasters? You do you, boo.

Best,

michelle.

 

 

 

Hilton Head Happily Ever After

Last weekend, Jay and I were invited to attend the wedding of one of his college friends. It was held in Hilton Head, SC which is about a five-hour drive from Atlanta. I can be honest and say I was not too thrilled to have to make the trip. I was VERY tired after the week and the thought of spending five hours in the car Friday night seemed unbearable. But I have the best fiancé in the world because he got me Taco Bell and drove the whole trip, so I could stuff myself with a bean burrito and sleep the entire way. We arrived to our Air B&B around 11pm. The condo was super cute, right on the beach, and the perfect size to share with some of Jay’s other friends. Saturday morning was a bit of a slow start on my end. I was tired, and I really just wanted to lay in the hot bath, shave my legs, and put on a sheet mask for hours… but I settled for 30 minutes.

After we finally got out the door (sorry housemates), we went to get brunch at a cute place called A Low-country Backyard Restaurant. It was DELICIOUS! I’m not a food blogger but this place was amazing, and I ate way too much. Next, we decided to do some window shopping at the Hilton Head Coligny Plaza Shopping Center. It was basically a big strip mall with fun shops where you can buy candles and oils. Eventually we found a wine tasting place that we were all thrilled to try. After the wine tasting, we passed the fish pond and strolled back to the car.

Post morning adventure we still had some time to kill. Naturally our condo was steps from the beach, so I couldn’t resist the urge to put my feet in the sand and breathe in the sea air. Wardrobe: SMU was playing Cincinnati that afternoon, so I was supporting my ‘stangs!

The wedding look place at the Long Cove Club Clubhouse. It was GORGEOUS. It is hard to put into works how fancy, beautiful, and fun the entire night was. The moment we opened the Clubhouse doors there were greeters there to hand us a glass of wine. We then made our way out to the said yard where the ceremony took place at sunset next to the golf greens. Wardrobe: I wore a dress from Francesca’s that I got on Clearance for $15! I was perfect for the occasion I felt comfortable and confident all night. There is still a blue version on the site available.

After the ceremony we had cocktail hour by an outdoor fire with an open bar a guitarist and plentiful appetizers. Every time we turned around there was more food to eat. I feel like this never happens at a wedding. Food is EXPENSIVE, so I feel like a lot of ceremonies feed people just enough, this was totally different. I ate WAY WAY too much that night.
The reception venue was inside. The centerpieces towered over the tables while candles and twinkle lights lit up the dance floor. It was truly a magical night. Jay and I danced so hard that I was sore for three days. I forgot to take a picture with Jay before my hair had fallen out, but I was glad I got one before we lift.

Sunday morning came, and all of the wedding guests were invited to a farewell brunch at Alexander’s Restaurant at the Palmetto Dunes Pavilion. The food was (surprise) delicious! After filling up on coffee, we said goodbye to the bride and groom and headed back to Atlanta. This time I drove so Jay could sleep. I was so excited to get back and prep the fridge and apartment for my sister’s visit!

My sister flew in that night and spent the next few days celebrating Halloween with us: Next week in the blog 😉

Perhaps you hate weddings? Perhaps you hate the beach? You do you, boo.

Best,

michelle.